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6 weeks post op

We had the 6 week surgical follow-up yesterday. It seems like there is always a surprise when we visit that office and yesterday’s surprise was that the surgical fellow we had been dealing with (Dr. Ibrahim) had finished his fellowship and was on his way back to Egypt that very day so we had a new surgical fellow who had just moved to Portland. Dr. Ibrahim was really my lifeline on surgery day and met with me twice that day post-op to go over Tom’s status and how the procedure went and attended all his rounds in the hospital. He was the doctor who ultimately had to tell us the GBM diagnosis which I can’t imagine is ever easy no matter how many times you do it. We’re really sad we didn’t get to say good-bye and he didn’t get to see how well Tom is doing and that we have not let the diagnosis slow him down. For a surgeon, he was the most compassionate one we have met to date and I think he is going to do a remarkable job wherever he ends up in his future. The new doc seemed nice but seemed a little distracted by the GBM diagnosis and felt that he needed to let us know there was still hope (duh!). He did remark that the incision site is very well healed and the incision area has firmed up. We asked about biking and honestly this doc isn’t tremendously athletic so I don’t think he “gets it” but said he could do it as long as he is careful and there is always going to be the risk of trauma to the site. He also re-iterated that the most recent MRIs show no tumor regrowth at this time. We seem him again in 6 weeks as they are going to keep following him despite their work in this largely being done. We do have the scoop on another surgeon in Seattle formerly of OHSU who has had some great results with our oncologist Dr. Neuwelt as together they have an 8 yr GBM survivor and a 10 yr oligodendroglioma survivor that Tom is friends with. If there’s ever another surgery needed, we may consider him if he’s still practicing at that point. Though there’s no reason to think the current surgical team didn’t do an excellent job! 
Sunday Tom got a little too ambitious and did his hour on the stationary bike and then we did a 6 mile hike. Probably a bit much and we thought he was having some muscle spasms in arms and legs from overdoing. We saw Dr. Jerry on Monday who thought it might be electrical impulses from low magnesium levels, but his labs on Thursday showed the magnesium levels were fine (platelets and white blood count are doing great too!) so yesterday they prescribed a low-dose steroid as it could be a known and common side effect (microseizures) from the radiation causing swelling. We see Dr. Jerry again Monday and he can weigh in once he’s had the steroids for a few days. 
There’s also been an uptick in the dizziness which they are hoping the steroid will help. We are going to redouble our efforts to get in with an OHSU ENT as his ENT specialist appointment isn’t until mid August to follow-up up on the vertigo. 

Overall Tom is still doing great, a little more fatigued this week from the radiation but no signs of nausea yet. 21 treatments to go!

The Ketogenic Diet and You

We are two weeks officially into the Ketogenic diet today and it’s going fairly well but the carb cravings are making me a little nuts. Surprisingly not missing the alcohol much. I am down 5 lbs and the bigger victory is that Tom is not down any weight. This week I’ve traded a little variety in the meal plan for my sanity and since the recipes make 4 servings, we’re having leftovers. 🙂 I also tried my hand at ketogenic peanut butter cookies this week and they must have been edible as Tom downed 5 of them as soon as he discovered them. Most of the resources on this diet are geared toward losing weight (though it is also used to treat epilepsy and fight cancer) so we were fortunate to get a dietitian through OHSU as a resource who is helping to make sure Tom is still doing all the right things nutrition wise. The University of Michigan has a study going right now regarding this diet and Tom’s specific type of tumor (Glioblastoma) that we are reading up on. 
We saw Dr. Jerry again today. Honestly that man is the weekly dose of hope that we need in our lives right now. Love him. Nothing new really except he is attending a Glioblastoma conference this week and he also said he made a list of trials that he wants to bring to Portland. If he ever moves, we are going to follow him. That’s right folks, there is definitely a restraining order in our future. 
One final bit of good news. We got the results of Tom’s series of MRI’s and there is no evidence of tumor regrowth since the surgery. Big sigh of relief. He’s also doing really well so far with the chemo and radiation. 25 more treatments to go!

Team food baby update!

Team Food Baby Update:We have raised an incredible $1405 for the National Brain Tumor Society! Wow!!!!!! Thanks so much to all the generous people who have donated! Can you help us get to $1500 today? There’s still plenty of time to join the walk or donate! I set up a separate group-Team Food Baby on Facebook if anyone wants to join. We are currently coordinating one of the next two weekends for a team BBQ and viewing of the movie Juno. Here’s the team link to join or donate. If you want to join the FB group for our walking team, send a request to the group. If not on FB, send me an email at jessica.kincaid1@gmail.com and I will keep you updated on team events.

http://www.braintumorcommunity.org/site/TR/TeamraiserEvents/PortlandBrainTumorWalk?team_id=78344&pg=team&fr_id=2735

Heads up for visitors!

Heads up for visitors!!! They are doing construction around our place at least for the next week so your best bet to avoid is to come in from the south on Gaarde and then turn onto 121st. Thanks to everyone who has come to see us or meet up with us! You are all wonderful and appreciated! We are pretty open in upcoming weeks so if you want to see us suggest a date or two that works for you!

Clarification on the chemo and radiation

A quick clarification on Tom’s treatments-The chemo is a pill he will take an hour before the radiation. He will take that pill 7 days a week for 6 weeks for this round. 

The radiation is a short visit to the Beaverton campus 5 days a week for 6 weeks where they will target a small area of his brain for 10-15 min with the radiation. He’ll have to get labs done there once a week and we will meet with Dr. Jaboin every Monday after it starts. While we appreciate the offers to sit with him through the treatments, they don’t allow anyone in that radiation room for safety reasons. Thanks everyone for your continued offers of support. We are so lucky to have all of you! 

Favorite doctor

In the race for favorite doc we have a winner! Meet Dr. Jerry Jaboin-the radiation oncologist. https://www.ohsu.edu/xd/health/services/providers/index.cfm?personID=3427
This guy is wicked smart, charismatic and really gives us a lot of confidence in his skill and this treatment. Plus he gave me cheese. Tom and I are going to adopt him. ❤️. Longer update later. 

Another update and we love the visitors

Do you know what’s incredible??? We have had a visitor everyday since we brought Tom home. Thank you all so much! You have no idea how much it means to us just to have visitors each day. And we LOVE when you bring your kids and pets. The biggest blessing out of this has really been getting to spend so much time with friends and loved ones. Let’s keep it going! I don’t think we have anyone scheduled for this coming Sunday going forward. No need to bring anything except your lovely selves! And since Tom is doing so great, we can definitely come to you!!!
Oncologist is this Wednesday and after discussing with him, we are likely going to go on the Ketogenic diet after this weekend at least for 28 days .It has shown to have good results with those doing chemo and radiation, particularly with brain tumors. It is pretty similar to what we eat already BUT no sugar. So we are going alcohol free after this weekend (Tom is pretty much already there). So maybe hold off on gifts of alcohol until we are drinking celebration beverages when he beats this. This is also why I cut off meal train after this week, but if I feel overwhelmed I will definitely ask! Cooking is one of the ways that Tom and I connect, so we are looking forward to getting back in the kitchen to try some new recipes. Here’s some of the books we are trying out:

The Ketogenic cookbook by Jimmy Moore and Maria Emmerich
Keto in 28 by Michelle Hogan.
If you do want to bring Tom snacks- nitrate free jerky would be a great choice!
Also huge thanks to everyone who has joined Team Food Baby and/or donated. Don’t forget to ask your employer to make a matching donation! We have already raised$1050!!!!!
I’ll be setting up a separate FB group for the walking team so we can plan a kick-off bbq with Juno screening thanks to Katy Moyes’s great idea for team to dress like characters from the movie and maybe plan a fundraiser. I’ll try to get that group together in a day or two. Here’s the link again:
http://www.braintumorcommunity.org/site/TR/TeamraiserEvents/PortlandBrainTumorWalk?team_id=78344&pg=team&fr_id=2735

Now we fight!

Yesterday was a serious blow to our morale when we received the diagnosis of grade IV glioblastoma.  The surgeon repeated what he said after the surgery-they got all of it -which actually means 95% or better. It is impossible to get it all, so now we meet with the oncologist and radiologist next week to determine the chemo and radiation he will undergo. Personally whatever # the oncologist gives us next week I don’t really care because we will beat it.

Yesterday was tough but the pity party is over.  Last year when I was going through a tough time someone told me, “You are strong.” It became my mantra and helped get me through one of the toughest years of my life to date. Yesterday I shared that mantra with Tom. He is strong, even stronger than I am. WE-everyone reading this now is strong and we will get through this. Tom comes from a line of some of the most stubborn people I have ever encountered (love you Birds!!!). He is going to fight and we need you to fight with us.

Here’s the part where I get selfish-I want this incredible man to live a long life with me. On August 7, 2016 we are participating in the Portland Brain Tumor walk. We would like you to join Team Food baby or consider making a donation. Here’s the link to join.

http://www.braintumorcommunity.org/site/TR/TeamraiserEvents/PortlandBrainTumorWalk?team_id=78344&pg=team&fr_id=2735

I spent the morning researching this group and they appear to be legit and use their funds well. Feel free to donate to Knight Cancer institute or any other cause near to your heart. Today is a day where we can start making a difference!

Goings on at our house…

Miyazaki film festival for Dianna with our nightly ritual of Tillamookies.  So far we have worked through:

My Neighbor Totoro

Ponyo

Kiki’s Delivery Service

Howl’s Moving Castle

Princess Mononoke (in progress)

We’ve also experimented with some outings for Tom with mostly good results-short errands-walk at the park and two outings to the nursery to pick out plants (thanks to Shirley!!!). Also thanks to Dianna for planting most of them already. 

Dianna has been indulging Tom in getting many of his wish list items-the other day she built his worm/compost bin and much to my chagrin, today 2000 red wigglers showed up to take residence in our garage. Can you feel my enthusiasm? :/

Another big thanks to the Meal train. You are all such incredible cooks! I am so thankful Tom is not stuck with my crummy cooking during this and it freed us up to focus on him since we don’t have to shop or cook and clean-uo is minimal. The visits really lift spirits too. We are super grateful for all of you!!!